Hey there lovebirds! I’m Bozena, your go-to wedding and portrait photographer. Today, let’s chat about something super exciting – what to wear for your engagement session! Trust me, I know it sounds daunting, but with these simple tips, you’ll be all set for a photo shoot that’s as magical as your love story.
Embrace the Light: Choosing Colors that Shine
First things first, colors! Light plays a huge role in your photos. As a photographer, I adore outfits that make your images brighter and softer. Think neutrals – they’re not just safe, they’re photogenic! White is always a win, especially for you, future brides. But hey, don’t be afraid to break the rules with a splash of color. Remember, coordination is key. You don’t have to match, but harmonizing your outfits makes a world of difference.
Classic vs. Trendy
Your engagement photos are a once-in-a-lifetime moment—just like your wedding day. You want to look back in 10 years and smile, not cringe and think, “Yikes… was that crop top really the choice?”
Classic, timeless outfits usually photograph best and never go out of style. But hey, if your style is bold and modern, don’t hold back completely! Try mixing in trendy touches like fun jewelry, a cute hat, or statement shoes. That way, you still feel like you, but with a polished, lasting look.
Avoid Neon or Bright Colors
Neon might be fun for a pool party, but it’s not your best friend for engagement photos. Bright, bold colors can reflect onto your skin and throw off the natural tones in your images.
These photos are all about you two—your connection, your love—not your highlighter-yellow shirt stealing the show. Plus, depending on the editing style, neon colors might not even show up the way you expect. Stick to softer, classic tones that let your love shine instead of your outfit!
Prints & Patterns
Big, bold prints might be fun at a luau, but in engagement photos, they steal the spotlight—and not in a good way. Loud patterns can distract from the emotion and connection we’re trying to capture. But don’t worry, prints aren’t the enemy! Small, simple patterns like plaid or soft florals can look amazing in photos—especially when paired with subtle, classic colors.
The key is to coordinate with your partner, not clash. If one of you is wearing a print, the other should stick to a solid color to balance things out. Avoid busy patterns, big logos, or anything that pulls attention to one part of your body. We want the focus on your faces, your love, and those sweet in-between moments—not your shirt.
Watch Out for Tiny Patterns
Small, busy patterns (like tiny stripes, tight plaid, or itty-bitty dots) can be tricky in photos. Sometimes, they create a weird effect called moiré—that wavy, dizzy look that happens on camera and makes your outfit look funky (and not in a fun way).
These patterns can also be super distracting and pull focus away from your faces. And that’s what we’re really here for—your smiles, your connection, your love story.
If you love patterns, go for something a little bolder and more spaced out. And remember, if one of you wears a pattern, it’s best for the other to keep it simple. Balance is key!
Patterns: Yes; Graphics: No
Some patterns work magic in photos, but avoid overwhelming graphics. We want the focus on your beautiful faces, not distracting clothes. If you’re unsure, I’m just a message away!
EXAMPLE
It’s amazing how much of a difference an outfit can make in photos—even when everything else stays the same!
These two images were taken of the same couple, at the same location, during the same session. The only thing that changed? Their outfits.
In the first image, the woman is wearing a bold floral dress—colorful, fun, and full of personality. While the dress is beautiful, the busy pattern tends to blend in with the garden setting, which already has lots of color and texture. The eye doesn’t know where to look first, and it can distract from the couple’s faces and connection.
In the second image, the woman switched into a soft, blush-pink dress, while the man changed into a light blue suit. These simple, solid colors really elevate the whole look. They help the couple pop against the background and bring a timeless, romantic feel to the photo. The focus is fully on them—their expressions, their hands, their moment together.
So even though the setting, time, and lighting stayed the same, the outfit change made a big impact. For engagement photos, neutral, solid-colored outfits help you shine—no distractions, just love. 💛
Neutral Love: Timeless and Elegant
Neutrals, oh how I love them! Blushes, tans, light pinks, faint blues, creams, grays, and whites – they create a light, romantic feel in your photos. Imagine soft colors blending beautifully with the golden hour glow. Now, that’s picture-perfect!
Color Coordination: It’s All About Balance
Let’s talk coordination. You both don’t need to be twinsies in your outfits, but complementing each other? Absolutely! If one’s in a formal gown, the other should match the vibe. Colors like blue and white, gray and soft blue, or cream and khaki pop wonderfully. And remember, if you’re amidst lots of greens, go for light, neutral colors to avoid color clashes.
What to wear: Pops of Color: When Breaking the Rule Works
Sometimes, breaking the color rule works wonders. A pop of color, like a yellow sweater or a blush pocket square, or a yellow bench can elevate your look. Just ensure it’s a subtle tone that complements the overall palette. Balance is the secret ingredient here!
White: A Nod to Your Big Day
Don’t shy away from white. It’s a beautiful way to hint at your upcoming wedding. Soft whites work best for different skin tones. And pro tip: professional makeup does wonders when you’re donning white!
Making It Uniquely Yours
Remember, these photos are all about celebrating your unique love story, so let’s make them scream “you”!
At the end of the day, these are just guidelines. Your engagement photos should reflect you as a couple. Be yourselves, and let your love shine through your outfits. For more inspiration, check out my Pinterest board – it’s packed with my favorite engagement outfits!
First up, wear something that screams “us”! Whether it’s a military, police, or fire uniform, college gear, or anything that holds special meaning, let’s showcase it. It’s not just an outfit; it’s a part of your story.
Variety is the Spice of Life: Bring Two Outfits
Two outfits? Absolutely! It’s all about variety. Start with the less favorite one; by the time you switch to your top pick, you’ll be pros at this! Comfortable, relaxed, and ready to rock those shots.
Dressy or Casual? Why Not Both!
Deciding between dressy and casual? Here’s a thought: go dressy. You might have other photo sessions, but this is your one and only engagement shoot. Make it count! Think black-tie for one outfit and sophisticated casual for the other. Remember, it’s just for a couple of hours, but the memories? Forever.
Two Outfits Is Just Right
Most engagement sessions last about an hour or more—which gives us plenty of time for one outfit change. Two outfits are perfect! A great combo is one casual and one dressy. This gives your photos more variety, especially if we’re shooting at two different spots.
For example—if you’re big Vols fans, start with denim, orange, and white around Neyland Stadium for some fun, relaxed photos. Then change into a suit and a flowy dress for some dramatic sunset shots on a rooftop with the city skyline. Yep, we can totally make that happen!
It’s easy to overthink your wardrobe, but don’t stress over finding the one perfect outfit. Bring two that you love. We can mix it up—jeans for one look, a skirt or dress for the other—and you’ll end up with a beautiful variety of images to choose from without the pressure of getting it “just right” the first time.
Avoid Anything Too Casual
I get it—yoga pants are life. But for your engagement photos? It’s time to level up! This is a big moment worth celebrating, so leave the athleisure, worn-out sneakers, and loud logos at home (unless it’s a Power T—then go big or go home. Go Vols!).
Dress for the Weather, Add Props for Fun
Dressing for the elements is crucial. Snowy backdrop? Think long dress coats or sweater dresses. And props! They add so much personality. Think light-colored flowers, champagne, blankets, elegant sunglasses… Keep it fun and stylish!
Location, Location, Location!
The right location can make your photos shine. Light tones and empty spaces create that airy, dreamy vibe. And those long, flowy skirts? They add a touch of elegance and movement to your photos.
Professional Hair & Makeup: Look and Feel Fabulous
Go pro with hair and makeup. It’s a stress-buster and confidence-booster. Plus, it’s a great trial run for your wedding day look. And don’t forget a manicure – your ring deserves to sparkle!
If you’re booking a professional, be sure to tell them ahead of time that if the weather doesn’t cooperate, you’ll reschedule. Pick a rain date in advance and check that they’re available for it. That way, no surprises if the skies don’t play nice!
Don’t Forget Your Feet: Practical and Stylish Shoes
Shoes matter! Bring a comfy pair for walking and switch to stylish ones for the shoot. Or find that rare pair that’s both fashionable and practical.
They don’t have to be heels or dress shoes, but make sure they match the vibe of your outfit. The right shoes can really pull everything together and take your look up a notch!
Also—bring a pair of flip-flops or slip-ons! If we need to walk a bit between spots, you’ll be glad to have an easy option to change in and out of. Your feet (and your fancy shoes) will thank you.
Layer It Up: From Thin to Thick
Layers add depth to your photos. Start with thin fabrics close to your body and add thicker ones on top. Jackets, sweaters, scarves – they all create different looks without a full outfit change.
Flatter Your Features: Dress Confidently
Choose outfits that flatter and make you feel confident. Three-quarter sleeves, the right heel height, clothes that complement your body – when you feel good, you look amazing.
Ready to Capture Your Love?
There you have it – my top tips for nailing your engagement session style. Remember, it’s all about feeling good, looking great, and celebrating your love. Can’t wait to capture these special moments with you! Let’s create some magic together! 📸❤️
Remember, these photos are all about celebrating your unique love story, so let’s make them scream “you”!
STYLING TIPS FOR THE GENTS
Alright guys, it’s your turn! Let’s make sure you’re looking sharp and perfectly coordinated with your fiancée for your engagement session. Here are some tips to help you step up your style game and complement your partner’s look.
The Sophisticated Look: Long Pants and Closed-Toed Shoes
To achieve a sophisticated and masculine look, opt for long pants and closed-toed shoes. Shorts and open-toed shoes might draw unwanted attention to your legs and feet, whereas suit pants, dress pants, or colored pants paired with closed-toed shoes (like brown leather dress shoes) elevate your look.
Coordinate Colors Like a Pro
When it comes to color coordination, subtlety is key. If your partner picks a color, try a different shade of it, like a tie or pocket square. Or, go for a complementary color that makes both of you pop. Think of it as a team effort where both of you get to shine!
Suit Up or Dress Down with Style
The classic suit never fails, but if that’s not your style, a sharp jacket or your favorite button-up dress shirt works wonders. And don’t forget those worn-in leather boots for a touch of rugged charm.
Matching Formality Levels
Chat with your partner to ensure you’re both on the same page regarding formality. It’s common for one person to prefer dressing up more than the other, so finding a happy medium is essential for your photos.
Layers and Accessories: Add Interest and Personality
Layers are your best friend for adding interest to your photos. Blazers, vests, and coats allow for multiple looks without needing a full outfit change. Don’t overlook accessories like ties, bowties, pocket squares, colored socks, belts, tie clips, suspenders, and watches. These can add a fun twist and help pull in coordinating colors.
Dress to Impress
Aim for a masculine look with well-fitted pants and closed-toe shoes. Ensure you’re well-groomed – a stylish man bun or a neat haircut can make a big difference. A collared button-down shirt is flattering and can be tucked or untucked based on your style and the session’s setting. And depending on the season or location, a jacket or tie can be a great addition.
Ready to Rock Your Engagement Session?
So there you have it, gents! With these tips, you’ll look dashing and perfectly in sync with your partner. Remember, these photos are all about capturing your love and personality, so let’s make them unforgettable. Can’t wait to see you both looking your best! 📸👔💕
ENGAGEMENT SESSION DON’TS
NAVIGATING THE STYLE PITFALLS
Ready to dive into your engagement session? Awesome! But before we do, let’s talk about a few style no-nos. Avoiding these common pitfalls will ensure your photos look as stunning as your love story!
Wrinkles Be Gone!
Wrinkled anything is a no-go. A rumpled dress or a crinkled shirt can really detract from the elegance of your photos. If your chosen outfit creases easily, consider hanging it during the drive and changing at the location.
Say No to Sloppy Jeans
Beware the sloppy jean syndrome – you know, the faded wash, saggy fit, worn knees. These are a big no for your engagement photos. Leave them at home and opt for something that makes you both look put-together.
Don’t Wear An Outfit That Doesn’t Match Your Skin Tone
The right colors can make your eyes sparkle, your skin glow, and your smile shine. But the wrong colors? They can wash you out or clash with your natural tones.
To make sure your outfit flatters you, choose colors that complement your skin tone, hair, and eyes. Not sure what works best? Soft neutrals, jewel tones, and earthy shades usually photograph beautifully on most people. Try a few options at home and see which ones make you feel confident and radiant—because if you feel amazing, you’ll look amazing too!
Coordinating, Not Matching
Avoid going matchy-matchy. If one of you is in a pattern or a bold color, the other should opt for something more subdued. It’s all about balance and letting each of you shine without overwhelming the photo.
Consider the End Use
Think about how and where you’ll use your engagement pictures. Planning for Save the Dates or wall art? The colors and vibe you choose should align with these end uses. Coordinate colors, but don’t make them identical.
Great, let’s dive a bit deeper into some other common pitfalls to avoid. Ensuring your engagement session is picture-perfect is all about the details, so here are a few more don’ts to keep in mind:
Don’t Forget the Accessories
Accessories are the cherry on top! They add fun, personality, and a pop of detail to your outfit. A special necklace, your favorite watch, bold earrings, or a cool pair of sunglasses—these little extras can bring out your style and make your photos even more you.
Bring a few along for your session. We can play around with them, and if something doesn’t quite work, I’ll let you know. No pressure—just options! After all, my goal is for you to love how you look and feel in your photos.
Don’t Overdo the Accessories
While accessories can add a wonderful touch to your outfits, don’t overdo it. Too many accessories can clutter the photo and detract from the main focus – you and your love. Choose a few meaningful or stylish pieces and keep it at that. Here is some more info abaut fun props for engagement session.
Avoid Trends That’ll Date Your Photos
Trendy outfits might look great now, but in a few years, they might not have the same appeal. Opt for classic, timeless pieces that will look just as beautiful when you’re showing these photos to your grandkids.
Too Short, Too Tight, or Just Plain Uncomfortable
I love a cute spring dress as much as anyone—but if it’s too short or too tight, it can be a problem. During your session, we’ll be moving around a lot—walking, sitting, twirling, maybe even a piggy-back ride or two! So you’ll want to wear something you feel good in and can move freely in.
If you’re constantly tugging at your dress, fixing straps, or worrying about a wardrobe malfunction, it’ll distract you from being in the moment—and that discomfort will show in your photos.
Here’s a tip: If you’re buying something new for the session, give it a little test run at home! Sit in it, spin in it, squat, even hug your fiancé in it. If it passes the “can I move in this?” test, you’re good to go. Let’s keep you comfy, confident, and camera-ready!
Don’t Forget to Dress for Comfort
While it’s important to look good, don’t sacrifice comfort. If you’re uncomfortable, it will show in the photos. Choose outfits that you feel great in and can move around easily, especially if we’re shooting in various locations.
Avoid Neglecting the Fit
Clothes that are too tight or too loose can be unflattering in photos. Ensure your outfits fit well and complement your body type. Tailored clothing always looks sharp and put together.
Don’t Let the Weather Surprise You
Check the weather forecast and plan accordingly. If it’s going to be chilly, bring appropriate outerwear. If it’s going to be hot, choose breathable fabrics. Being prepared for the weather will keep you looking fresh throughout the session.
Avoid Strong, Direct Sunlight
Harsh, direct sunlight can create unflattering shadows and squinting. We’ll aim for times of day when the light is softer, like golden hour, or choose locations with nice, even shade.
Timing Is Everything: Hair Edition
Avoid getting your hair cut or colored right before your engagement shoot. Fresh cuts can look too sharp, and color sometimes needs a few washes to settle in naturally. The sweet spot? About 1–2 weeks before your session. That gives your hair time to relax, your color to tone down just a bit, and you the chance to get used to your fresh look—so you feel confident and photo-ready!
Don’t Be Afraid to Be You
Lastly, while it’s great to follow these guidelines, don’t lose sight of who you are as a couple. Your engagement photos should reflect your personality and your love story. Be yourselves, and let’s capture the real, authentic moments.
Ready to Create Some Beautiful Memories?
Now that we’ve covered the don’ts, you’re all set to rock your engagement session with style and confidence. Let’s create some beautiful, timeless memories together! 📸💑
Try It On, Test It Out, and Prep Ahead!
Here’s a little trick that works wonders—try on your outfits a few days before your shoot and have someone snap a quick photo of you (yes, even just with an iPhone!). It gives you a way better idea of how your outfit actually looks in photos than just checking the mirror.
Also, think ahead—where will you be using these photos? Save the Dates? Hanging on your walls? Maybe your wedding website? The vibe you want for those spaces can help guide your color and style choices.
Fit Is Everything
A great fit goes a long way! Clothes that fit you well will not only look better but will help you feel more confident and relaxed during the session. And confidence always shines in photos!
Skip the Bloat
The day before your shoot, avoid foods that make you feel bloated—like fast food, super salty snacks, or anything greasy. You want to feel light and comfy! On the day of the shoot, eat something light and bring snacks (especially if we’ll be walking or exploring a bit!).
Prep the Day Before
Lay everything out the night before—outfits, shoes, accessories, snacks, water… all of it. Trust me, you don’t want to be running around hunting for that one shirt or ironing your clothes an hour before we meet. I’ve been there—once I forgot to prep for our own family photos and realized the pants we needed were still in the washing machine. Total chaos. 😅 Let’s avoid that kind of stress so you can arrive relaxed and ready to have fun!
Final Outfit Check
Give your outfit a quick try-on the day before too. If something suddenly doesn’t feel right or fit like you remembered, you’ll have time to switch it out. Feeling amazing in what you’re wearing makes all the difference!
ENGAGEMENT SESSION PACKING LIST:
Everything You Need For A Perfect Shoot
So, let’s talk about what to pack. Having these items on hand will ensure a smooth, stress-free experience and, of course, stunning photos!
- Comfortable Walking Shoes: If you’re planning to wear heels, bring along flats or flip-flops for moving between photo spots. Comfort is key!
- Second Outfit: Bring along outfit number two, complete with shoes and accessories, for a different look.
- Touch-Up Makeup: Handy for quick fixes and keeping your look fresh throughout the session.
- A brush, hairspray, and/or gel – Wind happens. Frizz happens. Be ready.
- Water Bottle: Especially important for warmer sessions to stay hydrated. Hydration is key when you’re looking cute!
- Snacks: – Choose mess-free snacks to keep energy up. Sorry chocolate… unless your session is chocolate-themed (yum!).
- Coat or Cover-Up: For those chillier sessions, it’s always good to have something warm.
- No gum, please! – But do bring mints or tic-tacs. Fresh breath = happy photos!
- Umbrellas – Just in case the weather tries to surprise us.
Comfort and Confidence are Key
I know, it seems like a lot to consider. But remember, the most important thing is to wear something that makes you feel comfortable and confident. That’s the secret to truly amazing photos.
Make It a Date!
And here’s a fun tip: turn your engagement session into a date! Plan a dinner at a new restaurant you’ve been eager to try, or a lovely brunch if we’re meeting at sunrise. Enjoy every moment of being engaged!
Have Fun and Connect
The best tip? Have fun! Get goofy, connect with your partner, and laugh lots. The best pictures are those where you’re truly comfortable. This is also a great way to get to know me, your photographer, before your big day. And guess what? For my couples, I’ve got a wardrobe stylist on call to help you feel and look your absolute best.
So there you have it, my top tips for what to wear for your engagement session. I hope this guide helps you feel more prepared and less stressed. Let’s get your shoot set up and capture some beautiful moments! 📸❤️👗👔
WAIT, THERE’S MORE?! 🎉
Yep—just when you thought you were all set for your session (even if the world ends 😆), I’ve got some extra tips and tricks to help you feel totally ready. These will give you a peek into how I shoot and what to expect!
Natural > Posed
My goal? Your photos should feel real, not stiff. I won’t be telling you exactly how to stand or where to put your hands. Instead, I’ll guide you with prompts like “walk slowly and whisper something funny,” or “snuggle in like it’s chilly.” You’ll do the rest—and it’ll look like you, not a Pinterest couple. (Although, let’s be real, you are Pinterest-worthy.)
Keep Moving!
Here’s a biggie: the more you move, the more photo magic we can create! If you freeze, I get one shot. But if you twirl, walk, laugh, hug, or even playfully push each other—boom, way more photos, way more fun!
Get Handsy!
Yes, seriously. Touch each other! Play with hair, grab hands, nuzzle necks, steal kisses, sneak in hugs—this helps your love shine in every frame. Think: flirty, sweet, silly, and totally you.
Silly Is the New Sexy
We are going to laugh. A lot. I might tease you (with love!) and definitely make fun of myself. You’ll probably catch me doing the chicken dance or saying weird things to make you laugh—and I hope you join me. The more ridiculous we get, the more real and awesome your photos will be.
It’s a Date—With a Camera!
This is not just a photo session—it’s a date night (or morning) with your personal, slightly bossy, very fun third wheel (that’s me!). 💃📸
Speak Up If You’re Uncomfortable
If something feels weird or awkward, tell me! Your comfort shows in your photos, so let’s keep it real and relaxed.
Props? Yes Please!
Want to bring something fun? Do it! Motorcycle? Yes. Viking helmet? Double yes. Cute dog? Absolutely. Even not-so-cute dogs (kidding, all dogs are perfect). Got a save-the-date idea? Let me know so we can nail that shot! More about ideas for your props here.
Ready for Your Close-Up?
Excited yet? I can’t wait to capture your love story! If you need more advice or are ready to book your session, reach out to me. Let’s create something beautiful together! 📸💕
Final Thoughts
Remember, these are just guidelines to help you look your absolute best. The most important thing is that you both feel comfortable and confident. Can’t wait to capture your unique love story in a way that’s perfectly “you”! 📸❤️
Let’s make this session unforgettable—full of love, laughter, and maybe even a little dancing. I can’t wait! 💛
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